Today I handed my daughter to a stranger, and even though she immediately started crying, I just walked away.
That was about ten minutes ago.
“Complete stranger” might be a bit dramatic, but it’s perfectly suited for a day that has been filled with drama.
See, the stranger was my new babysitter Brittany.
And in case you thought that I was a bad mom, I am still in the house (hiding out!).
You mommies know what being home with an infant is like: life takes place in five minute increments and you hardly have time to finish a meal, let alone a blog post!
You go from the baby swing…
To the picture book, with thick, tasty, board pages, of course!
Then to the activity mat…
Then it’s sing-a-long time!
Then maybe try to eat something…
Then it’s time for a diaper change!
And back again to the swing…
Lather, rinse, repeat!
It’s a vicious cycle that often leads to mild insanity, and lots of sour-smelling t-shirts.
And the silly part is that I love doing it!
But last month I decided that it’s time to get back into the swing of things with my business, and it was necessary for me to find a “mother’s helper” to facilitate this.
So Brittany is now upstairs with my little darling wailer, and I am here with you (the second favorite place I like to be!) so that I can spend the few hours of focused effort needed each week to propel my business forward.
Yes, hearing Caitlin scream and not picking her up is painful.
(You mothers know that nothing pulls at your heartstrings like your child’s cries!)
But to accomplish what I want to achieve in my business, I must do the uncomfortable until it becomes comfortable.
And so it goes in network marketing.
You are building your business to have the life you’ve never had.
And so you must be willing to do things you’ve never done!
And the skills we must learn in MLM can be downright frightening!
There’s talking to people (complete strangers!) and phone scripts and selling skills to name a few…
But you must do the uncomfortable until it becomes comfortable.
Pretty soon Caitlin will love Brittany…
And if you keep at it, pretty soon you will be able to talk to absolutely anyone.
Then, you will be able to talk to absolutely anyone about your business!
So whatever “uncomfortable” task is ahead of you, just tackle it NOW.
And after a couple days or weeks, you will soon be a pro!
(…and for the record, Caitlin stopped crying while I wrote this!)
Let me know what you did recently that was SO UNCOMFORTABLE… or share what you know you need to do to get out of your comfort zone to build your business.
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19. November 2011 at 6:33 am
What a heartfelt post Melissa!
It takes courage to pull yourself from the comfortable to the uncomfortable. But it can be done; it has been done; and it will continue to be done. Now thinking about those scenarios give me a sense of power and “Can DO.”
After teaching child development principles for years, one thing that stuck with me was the fact that many scientific studies kept saying that in the process of ‘letting go’ you end up teaching a brand new mind (in this case baby Caitlin and for our MLM newbies in the field) to trust in yourself, to be resilient, and to gain new ways to deal with the ever changing environment where we live.
What a gift! What an empowering strategy! It’s not easy but like I said before…It CAN be DOne! You sure are a prime example, Melissa:)
Thanks for sharing with us this beautiful moment in your life!
~Miriam
19. November 2011 at 7:47 am
thank you miriam, you are so sweet to say so! i am so impressed to know someone in the child development field! thanks for this lesson on “letting go”
23. November 2011 at 12:18 pm
Hello Melissa,
I loves your post! First of all it bring back memories and they are all wonderful ones (as far as I can remember…LOL)
We all have our own little (or bigger) distractions but I agree with you that when it’s time for business, we must put our entrepreneur hat on and leap forward!
You are going to do great! I just know it…Can’t wait to hear and chat with you again!
Congratulations again for your quick comeback! You are a great Mommy
Nathalie
23. November 2011 at 1:07 pm
thank you nathalie! you are so sweet to say so
as a mom yourself, you bring so much value to the marketplace for other women. thank you for all you do… can’t wait to see your new blog and what you’re up to!
talk soon!